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What does hater mean?

Say itHAY-ter/ˈheɪ.tɚ/noun

A person who criticizes someone or their success in an unkind way, especially online, often because they are jealous.

In slang, a hater is someone who criticizes you, says unkind things about you, or puts down your success. This often happens online. People often suggest that haters are just jealous. You will see the word in comment sections, in song lyrics, and in phrases like "ignore the haters".

Say it like hate plus "-er": HAY-ter. It is informal and a little disapproving [1], but it is not rude or vulgar. The word also has an older, plain meaning: a person who strongly dislikes something, like a "vegetable hater".

Word stats

How casual
Informal slang. It is fine with friends and online, but not in anything formal.
OK at work
Okay as a joke in a friendly work chat, but never use it to answer real feedback from your boss.
Grandma-safe
Safe, because nothing in it is rude. Older relatives may only know the plain "person who hates" meaning.
Cringe risk
Medium. Hater sounds normal, but "haters gonna hate" can sound like an old meme.
Freshness
Steady. About as many people look it up as last year, so the haters are not going anywhere.

Spotted in the wild

Comments on a cooking video
  1. dana_kwho puts ketchup in fried rice 💀
  2. jun.cooksmy grandma did and she lived to 98. the haters can stay mad
  3. mia.eatsignore the haters, this looks amazing

What it means here: The haters are the people leaving rude comments, and Jun is saying their opinion does not matter.

Group chat · Friday, 8:15 pm
  1. Leonew haircut. thoughts?
  2. Youhonestly… it looks like a helmet
  3. Leowow ok hater
  4. Youa hater with eyes 😂

What it means here: Leo jokingly calls you a hater so he can ignore your honest opinion.

Text with Mom
  1. MomAunt Lin says your dance video was too loud.
  2. Youshe’s just a hater
  3. MomShe hates what?
  4. Youit means she criticizes everything i do lol
  5. MomAh. Then yes, she is a hater.

What it means here: Here a hater is someone who always criticizes you, and Mom only knew the older meaning, a person who hates something.

How to use it

  • ignore / forget the hatersYour video is great. Ignore the haters.
  • (just) a haterDon’t listen to him, he’s just a hater.
  • don’t be a haterDon’t be a hater, his new song is actually good.
  • haters gonna hateYes, I’m wearing socks with sandals. Haters gonna hate.
  • a ___ hater (older meaning)My little brother is a big vegetable hater.

Don’t say it like this

  • Sounds offDon’t listen to him, he is hater.

    Say thisDon’t listen to him, he is a hater.

    Hater is a noun for one person, so it needs "a", like "he is a teacher".

  • Sounds offHaters gonna hates.

    Say thisHaters gonna hate.

    After "gonna" (going to), use the base form of the verb, with no -s.

  • Sounds off"HAT-er"

    Say this"HAY-ter"

    The a sounds like the a in "hate". With a short a, it sounds like "hatter", a person who makes hats.

  • Sounds offMy manager pointed out errors in my report. Such a hater.

    Say thisMy manager pointed out errors in my report, so I fixed them.

    Hater is for unfair, unkind criticism. Using it for fair feedback sounds childish, and at work it can sound rude.

hater or not?

Is each of these hater? Pick an answer to find out.

  1. A stranger comments on every one of your posts to say your drawings are bad.

  2. Your teacher marks three mistakes in your essay and explains how to fix them.

  3. A coworker gets promoted, and another coworker keeps saying she only got it because the boss likes her.

  4. Your friend tells you kindly, in private, that your business plan has a big problem.

The hater family

  • haters gonna hatePeople who criticize will always criticize, so ignore them.Best said while walking away slowly and confidently.
  • hate onTo criticize someone or something unfairly: "Stop hating on my shoes."The verb form, for when a hater is busy working.
  • hateradeA joke name for the drink haters "drink": being negative about other people.Sounds like a sports drink. No vitamins, all bitterness.

Where it came from

  1. 1986The earliest rap example of hater that The Right Rhymes, a hip-hop dictionary, lists is from a song by Doug E. Fresh & The Get Fresh Crew [3].
  2. 2000The R&B group 3LW sings "haters gonna hate" in the song "Playas Gon’ Play". It seems to be the first known use of the exact phrase, at least in songs [2].
  3. 2009A designer, Omar Noory, uses a "haters gonna hate" GIF online, and the phrase becomes a meme. In 2014 it is in the chorus of Taylor Swift’s song "Shake It Off" [2].
  4. TodayHater is everyday slang far outside hip-hop, and "ignore the haters" shows up in comment sections everywhere.

Hater, critic, or troll?

When you call someone a hater, you are saying their criticism does not count. That is useful, but it is not always fair. These three words are close, so here is how they differ.

WordWhat they doIs it fair?
CriticPoints out problems, often to help or to informOften fair, and sometimes useful
HaterCriticizes you or your success again and again, maybe out of jealousyNot fair, in the speaker’s opinion
TrollPosts things online only to make people angryNo. They want a reaction, not a change

Be careful with the word. People sometimes call any criticism "hate", even when it is true. If your friend says your cake is a little dry, that friend is a critic, not a hater.

In the older meaning, hater has nothing to do with criticism. A "Monday hater" or a "cat hater" is just a person who strongly dislikes Mondays or cats.

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